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MissSpookiness
22 February 2007, 13:26
Prologe
I have this problem, but if you come to think of it, it's not, and then it is.. so I'm kinda confused, and not just about the is it a problem part.

Introduction
So there's this guy I like, he's the big bro of a friend of mine. I had a moviemarathon (10 movies - 17hr) at her house, with some other friends (future mrs Pettyfer was there too) and I was like; Oh, my god.. I'm going to his house.. I'll be in the same house as him! So I kinda overreacted, but hey.. that's me. So I get there, and everythings okay, until I see her brother, let's call him C. So C. walks by, and I'm like: oh, my god.. that's C. And he also walked by with no shirt on, and my friends laughed at me for looking at him, but seriously, who wouldn't? So anyway, he goes to watch weird French movies with his buddy JJ (who hates me btw, but it's not like I've done anything against him..) So he's there, and then, when JJ leaves, he does too. this isn't the interesting part yet, the interesting part will come soon

Warning Interesting part! Of the introduction
Okay, so he comes back, and I'm totally flipping (again..) and then, he goes eating soup in the living room (where we are watching those movies). And you've should have seen the way he eats the soup.. He eats as if the soup is death ... gloomy soup.. But he's soo cute looking all depressed.. And he wasn't in a good mood, and I wished he would come sit with us (uhm, well with me) and I thought he wouldn't.. but he did, and he did some impersonations with were soo cute.. And we were talking a little bit, and he was so sweet and nice.. although the part where he wanted to set fire to my feet wasn't that nice laugh.gif And I noticed he was looking at me a lot of the time, and I was kinda not looking at him, also because I didn't want to make it too obvious (which it already was, but still) and because I didn't want to look him straight in the eyes, if I looked at him at the same moment he looked at me.. But Future Mrs Pettyfer noticed it too, so it's not like I'm seeing ghosts or whatever. And when he got cold he put on this hoodie and he put the hoodie on his head, and he was soo cute.. and when he would play with his hair.. that's cute too.. Just him being is cute.. I shouldn't be saying all this, it's just gonna make me crazy...
Some background information, he's the singer of a death/trash metal band. And they're quite good, actually. And he's single, that's worth mentioning too.End of introduction

The Actual Problem Itself

Okay, you ready? Do read the first part, it's kinda important.
I like him, he seems to be somewhat interested in me, on some kind of level. But his sisters says he's a player.. he denied it though, but he kinda is.. and he's so experienced with girls, and I'm like totally not experienced with boys.. But just as Fut. Mrs Pettyfer said, I've gotta get it right some time.
I don't know what to do as a next move, and I'm totally not good at flirting.. I've got some options..

a. Say hi* to him at school when you see him and just let him do all the rest (so that's hi and nothing else.
b. Say hi* to him at school and uhm.. well here's where I need the most help from you!
c. Ask his msn adress (his sister'll give it to me, she said so..) and say hi* to him at school.

I want to go for c, but I'm afraid I'll come across like some weird ass desperate chick, which I don't want him to think I am..
As you can read above and below, I'll probably mess it up anyway, so I would love to get some advice from him.. He's the Ville Valo look-a-like I mentioned in a topic somewhere.

* the hi comes with a free smile ('cause I don't think he'll like me if I'm cranky all the time) and I don't know how to say hi.. I mean.. I could say Hi C! or just hi or hey or hey C! and I could also say it cheery and enthousiastic, or just kinda like not that enthouastic, but not as if I'm not interested in him.

future Mrs.Pettyfer
22 February 2007, 13:39
cm_omg.gif..
you're not making any sense at all.. And I'm familliar with this problem..
I'd go for the say hi and get his MSN..

You've got to find the right guy once.. !
so go for it.. (not that I'm such a pro)

mrs_alex_pettyfer
22 February 2007, 14:02
well i wouldnt go for option c, cause you could come on a little bit strong, so if you see him just be like heyaa how are you? with a nice smile on your face (not so big it looks phyco though laugh.gif!) and just try and start up a conversation likeee oh that film was really good that we watched wasnt it? orr hows the band going? orrr something else i cant think of anything haha but yeah get to know him a bit first, then get his msn =) but if hes a player be careful! cause his sister would know him well so if she says it it could be true, also watch out, cause you are friends with his sister so that could be a little wierd...but for now i reccomend you get to know him! hope i helped =)

Marliieke
22 February 2007, 15:23
i think option c. is the best option smile.gif

MissSpookiness
22 February 2007, 15:23
thanks for the help smile.gif

his sister said that it would be fun if me and C would get together... huh.gif
I'll defenitly say hi.. oh.. now I can't wait till monday laugh.gif

mrs_alex_pettyfer
22 February 2007, 15:49
ahh that is alrite then =)! when you are chatting to him try and be a lil bit witty if possible, hell think your smart + funny that way =)! but make sure to be friendly just not overrr friendly! good luck!! biggrin.gif

lunal111
22 February 2007, 18:12
OK... i'm not the person to ask because i have had NO expereince with blokes at all...

wat i would do is...

go round his house more often, and see if he gets talking

go round his house more often, and sorta hang around him a bit (like if he goes to the kitchen, i would go get a glass of water or something)

and that is it...

OK, i usually just let the guys do all of the work, and it obviously doesn't work, so i wouldn't reconmend it.

If i had to go for A, B or C i would go for all of them...

say HI everytime you see him(preferably not with a high pitched voice which is what my friend does and that puts them off)
then see if he does anything, if not, ask someone for his MSN...

and I think that is the most i have ever typed in one go on this thing...






I feel a little bit dizzy.

wacko.gif

MissSpookiness
23 February 2007, 09:14
I really appreciate all the help, I really need it.. I'm so confused and everything reminds me of him.. this guy on the news has the same name, this other guy on tv had long curly hair like his.. I wish this feeling would go away, but on the other side I kinda like liking him.. and it's his b-day today.. he's turned 19! That's kinda old.. I mean, 15 and 19... but whatever.. I'll just see what happens

lunal111
23 February 2007, 10:08
it's not that big a differnce...

4 years..

it just seems big cos we are all young...

Gothique Chic
23 February 2007, 10:09
Ahhhhhhhhh!
Ville Valo!
-melts-
-dies-

Here's my take on it.
You don't have too actually do it but I thought I'd share what I've learnt from experience & observation.

Tell him his music sucks.

It'll at least get a conversation going.